Two summers ago I met a woman at the local YMCA. Her kids and mine were at the same summer clinic, and she and I got to know each other. As we talked, we discovered that we both have children with similar learning disabilities. D. is the first person I've been able to discuss Zion with who can say, with authority, "Girl, I know." And she does.

This critical, mutual support is something we all need. As parents of learning disabled children, we must form relationships with people who understand. You need someone in your corner, someone who gets it, because they are either where you are or they've already been there. Make friends with parents of other learning disabled children, or join a support group.

Your support system should also include your child's pediatrician. As I mentioned in the last I'm No Expert, But Here's What I Know, if your child's pediatrician isn't listening to you, get one who will. You need someone who will listen to your concerns, offer advice, refer you to experts, help coordinate your child's care.

Enlist your friends and family. If your journey is like mine, sometimes it gets so overwhelming that your child's disability is your whole life. (Thankfully, we don't have to feel that way every day.) Know who you can count on to listen to you rant, rave, laugh, or cry. Let them know you don't expect them to have any answers.

Most important, don't be afraid to use your support system. This journey can be a rough one, but knowing people are there to help you can make all the difference.