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I got married at 40 and have been hoping / trying for a baby ever since. My husband and I knew that starting to try for a baby over 40 was a long shot. We didn't know about my stage 4 endometriosis. After one IVF in 2005, we have had four donor egg IVFs with two different donors. One chemical pregnancy, one ectopic, two negatives. We never thought it would take this long. We still have seven blasts frozen and we still have a lot; each other, many hard lessons, and hope.
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I love the conviction and honesty of Sarah's song. I have several friends who could empathize with her, all of whom have or are making differing choices about how to become moms themselves. Keep...
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Fat Pants
I'm wearing my fat pants. I wonder what percent of the general population knows what “fat pants” are. For me, fat pants are what I pull out when my "regular" pants don't fit, usually due to unexpected fatness. I would love to pull them out for pregnancy - they...
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Somebody's Mom
This is actually my friend Sarah's story. But it's definitely my story, and it may be part of yours as well.Sarah is too shy for Trusera, but she's letting my post her song and video links here. Sarah writes about her infertility in her songs. Here's her video &qu...
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I'll have the crumbs
My husband and I have slept two nights now in a very small bedroom with bare unfinished drywall, reeking of some kind of drywall glue that is probably so toxic it's banned in China, with a bare-bulb work light swinging overhead, in a queen-size bed which is just mattresses on the f...
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Support your local infertile
Whenever people ask how to support "friends who are having trouble," we infertiles are delighted to respond. So here are some of my favorite things to suggest to anyone who wants to support a friend or family member struggling with infertility.1) Ask. The sile...
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Nothing to tell
When I was single, which wasn't that long ago, and when I was younger, which seems like it was that long ago, it was so much fun to share romantic adventures with trusted friends. There was always something to talk about. Meeting someone interesting, having crushes, dis...
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teh4 - on April 15, 2008
Hello and welcome to Trusera! We're glad to have you as a member and looking forward to hearing more about your experiences.heyjudeseattle - on April 16, 2008
Hey Joy! Welcome, we're doing a lot of work around fertility issues right now, so you'll see more and more information on the site in the weeks ahead. Thanks for joining us. Jude